Hospital stays are where the absence of a family advocate is often felt most acutely — but a few things prepared in advance close most of that gap.
Before you're admitted (or as soon as possible after)
- Give the hospital a copy of your health care proxy and HIPAA release right away
- Provide your emergency contact and health care agent's information to the admitting desk directly, not just to whoever happens to visit
During the stay
Ask if the hospital has a patient advocate or social worker — many do, specifically to help patients without family support navigate discharge planning and communicate with the care team.
Discharge planning
This is where solo agers most often need extra support — arranging transportation home, follow-up care, and any home modifications. Raise this early in the stay, not on discharge day, so the hospital's social worker has time to help arrange it.
Ask a friend or your care team member to be reachable by phone during your stay, even if they can't visit in person — hospital staff often prefer having someone to call with updates.
This article is general information, not medical advice. Discuss your specific medical situation and any advance directives with your physician.