Becoming a solo ager through widowhood is different from other paths into this situation — it usually happens suddenly, and grief and practical planning arrive at the same time.
There's no rush on major decisions
Most advisors suggest delaying big decisions (selling a home, major moves) for at least a year after a spouse's death, giving yourself time to grieve before layering on additional major change.
Update your documents when you're ready
Your spouse was likely your named power of attorney and health care proxy — these need new names as soon as you're able to address it, even if it feels difficult.
Widow and widower support groups, often run through hospice organizations or faith communities, connect you with others in the exact same transition.
This article is general information, not medical or legal advice. Discuss designating a health care proxy or advance directive with your physician or a licensed attorney.