Three older women walking together along a tree-lined path

Video calls, texting, and social media genuinely help solo agers stay connected, but the research is fairly consistent: they supplement in-person contact well, and substitute for it poorly over the long term.

Where technology helps most

Maintaining existing relationships across distance, and as a bridge to arranging future in-person contact.

Where it falls short

Passive scrolling or one-way media consumption doesn't meaningfully reduce loneliness, even when it feels like "spending time with people."

Use video calls to schedule the next in-person meetup, rather than letting them become a permanent substitute for one.